The Star King
by Susan Grant
"A female USAF fighter pilot saves the crown prince of the galaxy from certain death when she's shot down over Saudi Arabia. Was she hallucinating or was it real? Neither knows for sure, and both their lives suffer as a result. Nineteen years later, she is a divorced suburban mom with kids in college and he's in exile, living the life of a smuggler. When they meet again outside the realm of dreams, he remembers her, but she doesn't recognize him -- and hoo-wee, the result is a love story of galactic proportions.
Sorry, that's the best I can do. The book is really better than it sounds."
No, it sounds great Susan. Can't wait to read it!